Equality Is a Lie, Women Will Never Be Equal To Men
The female was not created to compete but to complete a man
Society is facing a crisis with the disintegration of families. When the man and woman find it difficult to stick together, society bears the consequences because if there’s no family, then there’s no society. Most women have lost their attraction by acting like men due to the erroneous information being fed to them. This has mostly come from the radical feminist movement which of course tells the woman that the only way they can fight for equality is to behave like the man and compete with him. The needs of the man are different from the needs of the woman, and men don’t like to compete with women, we prefer our fellow men. Men would rather fight for the woman, than fight with her.
In Understanding Human Nature by Alfred Adler, he highlighted the chaos among the sexes. The fallacy of the inferiority of women, and its corollary, the superiority of man, constantly disturbs the harmony of the sexes. As a result, an unusual tension is introduced into all erotic relationships, thereby threatening, and often entirely annihilating, every chance for happiness between the sexes. Our whole love life is poisoned, distorted, and corroded by this tension. This explains why one seldom finds a harmonious marriage…
In no sense am I disputing that women should also have the ability to speak their voices or go ahead in life to achieve their dreams. If equality or feminism means the same opportunities for both sexes, that I’ll fight for because I want my daughter to have equal opportunities as her male counterparts. However, we all know this has surpassed that and now goes to the extent of launching attacks on the man and trying to make him less of a man.
Ferdinand Lundberg and Marilyn F. Farnham two students of feminism revealed the notion that: Far from being a movement for the greater realization of women as it is professed to be, feminism was the very negation of femaleness. Although hostile to men and hostile to children, it was at the bottom hostile to women. It bade women commit suicide as women and attempt to live as men …. Psychologically, feminism had a single objective: the achievement of maleness by the female, or the nearest possible approach to it. In so far as it was attained, it spelled only vast individual suffering for men as well as women …
Now, bear in mind that men are logical and women are emotional. Women attach emotions to basically everything they do. Both sexes are hardwired biologically to be different and it is this difference that creates the attraction. If a female starts to behave like a male, she loses all her ability to attract the male. W. Anton in his international bestseller, The Manual What women want and how to give it to them made mention of some qualities that makes the female unique and attractive:
As females are physically more vulnerable than males, typical feminine behavior includes expressions of this vulnerability, primarily to be emotional — to show emotions of weakness or to allow yourself to be led by such emotions. Women express their greater vulnerability in a multitude of ways. They weep more easily, scream when surprised, avoid all kinds of risks, exaggerate every hint of pain, make more noise when making an effort, avoid physical labor altogether, depend more on others to help and support them, try to avoid conflicts, build more consensus in social settings by talking more without voicing disagreements, are more interested in collaboration than competition, attack their enemies behind their backs in more psychological than physical ways, prefer more comfortable indoor jobs than hazardous outdoor occupations, keep their knees and elbows closer to their bodies as to cover themselves more…
In essence, all these qualities make the female very different from the male. If a male is to put up any of those female qualities highlighted, he would lose the attraction from women. In a relationship, if the woman starts to usurp authority over the man, becomes dominant, and assumes the head, she only creates problems. The male was created to be the head and that is non-debatable. The female was created to be the neck and that is giving support to the head. We all know without the neck no head can stand, and if the neck is cut off the head falls, eventually bringing the whole body down. The good old book tells us that the woman was created to be the helper and not the tormenter. There is no room for women's empowerment in marriage.
Robert Greene in his masterfully crafted book Mastery said; our times might emphasize equality, which we then mistake for the need for everyone to be the same, but what we really mean by this is the equal chance for people to express their differences, to let a thousand flowers blossom.
Quite an interesting lesson I learned from the lion pride. The lion is the head of the pride undoubtedly, however, the lioness also takes the lead in certain activities. She goes about her duties, such as hunting, taking care of her breeds, and nurturing the next generation of lions. The male lion uses his vast strength and vociferous voice to roar and defend his territory against other male counterparts. Each lion performs its duty to aid in the survival of the pride.
Some women sometimes attract men, only to end up losing them. A woman who behaves like a man, will only put the man off and make him lose attraction to her. A woman wants a man who is confident, charming, and takes responsibility. If you’re a man and you put up female qualities, you put women off. God never started the world with two identical sexes, that would be chaotic and we surely wouldn’t have come this far.
Women don’t strive to be equal, strive to be significant, your voice counts and needs to be heard. Go after your dreams but not at the expense of raising the next generation and creating a peaceful family. Your tracks are different from that of men, and you don’t have to bring the man down to be significant. Both sexes have their roles to play in making the family the best it should be.
“It is the greatest inequality to try to make unequal things equal” — Aristotle
Society is crumbling with the idea of radical feminism, making cohabitation and divorce the substitute for marriage. Women are unique and both the family and society needs you. There are already enough men, we don’t need women transitioning into men. Women be who you were created to be.
Thank you!
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